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  • Celebrating Valentine’s Day a Day Late

    There are many couples who enjoy celebrating Valentine’s Day but are often annoyed or stressed out when they try to celebrate Valentine’s Day on February 14th. This is because one of the most popular ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day is by going out to dinner. This can lead to overcrowding and long waits to be seated. Some restaurants do not take reservations and even the ones that do often have difficulty honoring these reservations when there are huge crowds on Valentine’s Day. As a result there are many couples who opt to celebrate Valentine’s Day by going out to dinner a day or two late or even a day or two early. There is nothing wrong with this and it can often result in a much more relaxing Valentine’s Day celebration simply because it is taking place on the 13th or the 15th of February instead of the 14th. This article will provide some information on celebrating Valentine’s Day a day late.

    If you are planning to take your partner out to dinner to celebrate Valentine’s Day but are having trouble making reservations you might consider making your reservations for the day after Valentine’s Day or for the first weekend after Valentine’s Day. This will give you many additional options and will help to make your planning easier. However, if this is what you are planning you should probably also consult your partner to make sure celebrating a day late or even a few days late will not be disappointing to your partner. This is an important factor to consider because there are many who are very adamant about going out to celebrate on Valentine’s Day and may be extremely disappointed if plans are made for a day late.

    If your partner will be extremely disappointed about celebrating Valentine’s Day, it might be a good idea to alter the plans rather than delaying them. For example if you want to avoid having to wait more than an hour for a table at a fancy restaurant, try cooking a great meal for your partner instead. You will still be celebrating in a really fun way but you won’t have the stress of dealing with a crowded restaurant.

    Sometimes it is not merely a matter of convenience which makes it necessary to celebrate Valentine’s Day a day or two late. You or your partner may have an unusual work schedule which would make getting together on Valentine’s Day extremely difficult. For example doctors often work a few long shifts per week which can interfere with Valentine’s Day plans. If you or your partner is in this type of situation it is best to discuss Valentine’s Day ahead of time and figure out what will work best for the two of you. You might decide it would be a good idea to celebrate few days late or you may even agree to just exchange cards for Valentine’s Day. Whatever you decide you should make sure it is a decision which makes you both happy.

    Finally, if you and your partner are planning to celebrate Valentine’s Day a day or two late it is important to remember that you should still treat your celebration with all of the excitement and enthusiasm as you would if you were celebrating on the 14th of February. For example if you would buy a new dress, get your nails done or get your hair done for Valentine’s Day you should still go ahead and do these things even if you are celebrating Valentine’s Day late. It will help to make the celebration feel more fun and exciting.

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  • Why Sex is Different for those over 60

    Sex has a way of making relationships difficult when we are younger. Many young people struggle with the issue of when it is the right time for them to start having sex. They may feel they have found the right person and then down the road wish they had waited for someone else to share that experience with.

    Many people will tell you that having sex at a young age can certainly lead to some difficulties with relationships. One party may want it to be very casual while the other has fallen in love. There are hurt feelings and even unwanted pregnancies that have to be dealt with. Some may say that they don’t want to think about sex and being older, but those over 60 will tell you it is different – and the love it.

    They don’t have to deal with all the same struggles as they once did. Most women over 60 will tell you that they don’t have to worry about looks. They know that the partner they are with wants to be with them for more than just the hot body they have. They have accepted that their body has changed with time and they still enjoy having sex.

    Men over the age of 60 will also tell you that the burden is off them to have the big muscles. They also don’t have to try to perform all night long like they did in their younger years. With all of the stress off the issue of having sex, the couple can focus on making each other feel good. It is a completely different feeling than what they experienced before.

    Both sexes will agree that sex at this age is about much more than just the physical side of things. It is a way to connect with someone they love, respect, and desire on a deeper level. Sex doesn’t have to be the central theme of the relationship so there isn’t any pressure for it to start taking place. They can take their time to get to know each other before they move on to that level.

    For couples who have been together for a very long time, they often find as they move into their 60’s that they have more time to spend with each other. This allows them to rekindle their love for each other that may have been pushed aside for many of the past years in their relationship.

    You will definitely find these types of relationships to be built on great communication. They two people will really enjoy being around each other. They love to talk and to spend time together. Having sex is just an added benefit of them spending that time with each other. They can bring that level of communication that they value into the sexual relationship as well.

    For those over 60, still having sex means that someone finds you to be desirable. This is very important to both men and women. It allows them to feel loved and cared for. It also allows them to have a level of intimacy that goes beyond just sitting close or holding hands with someone. That can help them to feel young and revitalized.

    You will also find that as people get older they value their relationships more. Even though young couples may be in love, they may not fully realize the importance of their choices. Older individuals are able to see the connection of a good relationship both outside of the bedroom and inside of it. That is what keeps their passion for each other alive.

    If you fit into the category of individuals who think it isn’t going to be much fun having sex one you are 60, think again. Re-evaluate your attitude about it once you have read the material online for those who are in that age group and loving their sex life. Things are going to change but having sex in your 60’s and beyond can be a completely new experience. It can be more rewarding in many ways then what you experienced at earlier times in your life.

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  • When Professional Help Is Needed to Help You Have a Better Sex Life

    Are you married?  If you are, are you currently satisfied with the level and amount of intimacy that you receive?  If you are not, you may want to take action right away.  Although a marriage should not be built on sex, it is still an important component.

    Unfortunately, when it comes to intimacy and not receiving enough of it, there are many husbands and wives who automatically think that their marriage is over.  Why?   Because many believe that a poor level of intimacy is the sign of boredom or the lack of love.  Yes, this can be true in some cases, but only a small number of cases.

    What you need to realize about intimacy is that there are a number of reasons why problems occur.  Just because your husband or wife does not want to be intimate with you or if they act like they want to get through the whole experience as quickly as possible, it does not mean that there is something wrong with you.  There may be other issues to blame, other issues that may require professional help.

    Some men and women just have low sex drives.  They may have always been this way or their need may have decreased with age.  In these types of situations, professional help is advised.  Some men and women can try their hardest, but they still aren’t interested in getting intimate with their spouses, no matter how much they do love and cherish them.

    If you suspect that you or your partner has a decreased sex drive, medical attention is advised.  It is important to know that there are many solutions to the problem.  Both men and women can use medication to revive their sexual wants and needs.  Speaking of medication, did you also know that medication can be to blame?  Some prescription medications have side effects that include a decreased sex drive.

    If there is no physical or emotional reason for your lack of intimacy, such as depression or a low sex drive, professional help is still advised.  This is particularly true if you are married.  Marriages should be worth saving.  You and your spouse are encouraged to attend marriage counseling together.  After a close examination, you may find a ton of other reasons why your intimacy isn’t what it should be.  These additional reasons may include being concerned with work or being concerned with money.  A marriage counselor can help you work through those concerns, which may help to improve the level and amount of intimacy that you receive at home.

    Despite the fact that there are times when professional help is needed to improve intimacy in a marriage, there are many individuals and couples who opt not to seek professional help.  One of the most common reasons for doing so is embarrassment.  If you are on the one who is embarrassed, it is important to remember that intimacy problems are actually very common in a marriage, especially a long-term marriage.  Do not be afraid to seek professional help.

    As a recap, if you are unsatisfied with the current level of intimacy that you are receiving in your marriage, professional help may be needed.  There may be an underlying issue that needs to be discussed or treated.  Don’t let your fear of embarrassment hold back you or your relationship.

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  • Ways for Men over 60 to Deal with Erectile Dysfunction

    As a man gets older the ability to get and to maintain an erection can be harder. Some men find it just takes a bit more foreplay. They may also find they can’t get a second erection soon after like they once could. This is normal and most couples find it to be an issue they can easily deal with. They are still able to have a very satisfying sex life in spite of such minor issues.

    However, some males end up with what is know as erectile dysfunction. This can become a serious issue that affects the individual both mentally and physically. At first they may only have the problem once in a while. It can be embarrassing but couples can deal with it. The partner needs to be very encouraging and supportive so it won’t become a mental issue the next time sex is initiated.

    For other men though erectile dysfunction can end up being a very serious problem. It can result in them becoming angry or upset. It can also lead to depression as many men do associate their manhood with their ability to have sexual intercourse. There are many reasons why a man may suffer from erectile dysfunction when they are 60 or older.

    Medical concerns are the number one factor. Heart disease, high blood pressure, and even diabetes can all cause erectile dysfunction. Seeing a professional about what is going on is very important. They can help prescribe medications that can help with the issue. Sometimes it turns out to be the medications that you are on that make it hard to get an erection. The doctor can help to determine the cause and get the person back on track.

    Mentally a man can prevent himself from being able to get an erection. Issues about not being able to in the past can certainly cause a great deal of anxiety. Not feeling attractive or worrying about being able to perform can also be a problem. Talking to your partner about your fears can help to alleviate them.

    Changing lifestyle habits can really make a difference too. Some men over 60 aren’t able to get an erection due to heavily smoking or drinking. Working to get rid of these habits can help the issue of erectile dysfunction to take care of itself. Likewise, changing your diet and losing weight can be helpful as well.

    There are several reasons why males over 60 years of age may be experiencing erectile dysfunction. Yet it doesn’t have to mean the very end of your sexual lifestyle. There are ways to deal with it that can get you back on track again. Be willing to try different things in order to get to the bottom of your problem.

    One of the most frustrating things for men with erectile dysfunction is that it can take time to discover what is going to make a difference. You have to be willing to follow the doctor’s orders. You have to be open to trying a course of action for a couple of months and then exploring another one if that one wasn’t effective for you.

    Sex for men over 60 is still very important and it can be very fulfilling. Don’t be afraid to look at your lifestyle to see where you can make changes. Go to a doctor you can trust and you are comfortable with. This way you can share your feelings and discover what your options are for effectively dealing with erectile dysfunction.

    Some of the different treatments that a doctor can offer include various medications. With advances in technology there are also implants that are surgically placed inside of the penis. Counseling can be very effective when the doctor feels there may be a mental link to the erectile dysfunction. Exploring the various options can help you to be able to get and maintain an erection again like you did when you were younger.

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  • Vascular Disease can Create Complications for Men over 60 wishing to have Sex

    Vascular disease is a type of problem older males can experience. It is a type of erectile dysfunction so it can definitely affect their ability to have the quality of sexual lifestyle they are interested in. With vascular disease, the arteries end up hardening. This is going to prevent enough blood from being able to flow to the penis for it to get hard at all or to get hard enough for intercourse to take place.

    Approximately 60% of all men over the age of 60 who have a type of erectile dysfunction find that it is due to vascular disease. This is why men over the age of 55 are encouraged to get a screening annually. Most doctors will include it in the physical exam that they do. Yet too many males don’t see a doctor for a routine check up each year as they should. As a result, they end up with vascular disease being a problem that isn’t identified until it has already affected their ability to maintain an erection.

    The research on the cases of vascular disease that have been found find some common factors. Males who smoke, have high cholesterol, or that are overweight tend to be at a higher risk. Males who have been diagnosed with diabetes or heart disease also have a higher chance of developing vascular disease as well.

    In order to determine if a man is suffering from vascular disease, an assessment is completed. Generally a blood test is done which can provide the necessary information. The penis may be touched as well to determine how sensitive the nerves are in it in connection with arousal.

    It is also very important for the patient to give accurate information. The assessment will ask when they last time a full erection was maintained. Many men lie about it as they don’t want to face the problem or share it with their doctor. Yet they are there to help with such issues and not being honest can prevent you from having a great sex life.

    Once the vascular disease has been confirmed, the doctor can discuss the course or action to remedy it. Many men who need to make lifestyle changes such as to stop smoking or to lose weight will for sexual activity to take place. That is how important it is to them and the life they wish to engage in.

    Sometimes the physical issues of vascular disease have to be treated with emotional needs too. For the male who has been dealing with it for a while, the anxiety and shame of not being able to maintain an erection can be a factor. Even if the physical issues are resolved, the mental block is still going to be there. Dealing with both factors at once gives these men the best chance of overcoming their erectile dysfunction.

    Depending on the assessment, the man may be given a prescription for various types of medications to help maintain an erection. Many of them have been quite successful and they continue to improve all the time. There are also vacuum devices given that will help to pull more blood into the penis so the erection can take place.

    Surgery is becoming more of a common way to treat vascular disease that has lead to erectile dysfunction as well. Many men want to go this route rather than having to use drugs or a pump to get their erections to take place. With surgery the arteries can be cleared so that the blood can naturally flow to the penis like it should. If there are veins that allow the blood to leak out they can be blocked. There are also implants that can be permanently inserted to assist a man with getting an erection.

    An estimated 30 million men are affected by vascular disease right now. Finding out if you are at risk is important as it can help you to avoid being part of the statistics. Should you end up with vascular disease though there are very effective ways of treating it. Rather than giving up on sex, see a doctor who can help you find the right solution for you.

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  • Tips for Buying Sex Toys and Accessories

    Are you looking for an easy way to spice up your sex life with your spouse?  If you are, you should know that experimenting in the bedroom has been successful for many couples, just like you.

    As nice as it is to know that experimenting in the bedroom may help to revive the romance in your relationship and improve your satisfaction in the bedroom, you may be curious about the buying process.  This is because one of the first ways that married couples experiment in the bedroom is with the use of sex toys and other similar accessories.

    If this is the first time that you are looking to purchase sex toys and other similar accessories, you may be a little bit nervous about doing so.  In fact, you may be downright fearful of the whole process.  You are, please continue reading on, as some helpful buying tips are covered below.

    First, it is important to know that sex toys and other similar accessories come in a number of different formats. You can purchase pleasure enhancing toys, role playing toys, massage oils and so forth.  This is important to know as it may eliminate some of the fear associated with going into a sex toy store and buying something that will bring attention to yourself, like a huge blowup doll.

    Speaking of bringing attention to yourself, it is important to know that the use of sex toys in intimacy is increasing in popularity.  Many individuals are finding them to be a great new way to bring passion and excitement into the bedroom.  Although you might not know it, there is a good chance that your friends and even some of your relatives use these popular toys and accessories.  Knowing that you are not alone may help to make the buying process a lot easier.

    If you live near a large city or town, you should have multiple sex toy and accessory shops for you to choose from.  With that said, it you would prefer to shop online, you can do that as well.  For shopping online, perform a standard internet search the type of items or accessories you are looking for.  Choose a website that has a large selection of sex toys and similar accessories available for sale, a website that has good prices, and one that looks reputable.

    Many couples prefer shopping online for sex toys, as it does tend to limit the embarrassment.  The only thing is that you need to be careful with who you shop with.  You will want to do business with a company that is discrete.  Make sure your package doesn’t arrive with a phrase like “We Sell Sex Toys,” plastered around the box.  Also, what will appear on your credit card or bank statements?  This may be a concern of yours if you don’t want what seems like the whole world knowing what you do in your private life.

    As a reminder, as fearful as you may be of walking into a sex store for the first time or as worried you may be having a red box that screams sexual contents sitting on your doorstep, don’t worry.  Remember that a lot of couples use sex toys as a way to bring fun and excitement into the bedroom.  If you are looking to spice up your sex life, visit a local store with your spouse or browse the internet together.  This alone may help to get you in the mood.

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  • Some Common Problems for Women Older than 60 that can Make Sex Uncomfortable

    Sex can continue for women at any age, but there are some common problems that can affect those over 60 and make it uncomfortable. If you aren’t feeling good during the activity of course it is going to be something you avoid being a part of. That can really make you feel less attractive and even older than you really are. Sex is a big part of who we are even though it isn’t the most important attribute.

    Too many women just sum up these common problems as the end of a very happy sex life. Others never really enjoyed it anyway so now it is just one more issue to prevent them from considering sex as something wonderful or rewarding. Yet you don’t have to let problems prevent you from enjoying sex after age 60. There are many things you can do to make yourself feel better.

    Stress can be a huge factor that affects enjoying sex. Some women that are older find that they have things taking place in their life that overwhelm them. Dealing with that stress is very important though to help move on from it. Talking to friends or a professional counselor can certainly be helpful.

    A change of partners can be difficult for women as well. Most women are very loyal to their partner and so it can be hard to become intimate with someone else. They may have gotten divorced later in life and just now came back onto the dating scene. Some women have lost their spouse due to death. After being with the same person for decades it is certainly a new experience to have sex with someone different.

    Many women will find that it does take longer to become sexually aroused when they are in their 60’s. Instead of being frustrated by this a woman just needs to find ways to work with it. Having a relaxing bath with a partner, a nice romantic dinner, or just cuddling for a while can help. A woman needs to make sure her partner understands what will arouse her as well.

    The ability to naturally lubricate the vagina can be an issue as well. This is important to address because it can result in sexual stimulation as well as intercourse being painful. There is no reason for a woman to have to deal with this but many suffer in silence. They try to avoid the atmosphere for sex to take place so they don’t have to discuss this with their partner.

    It is often the result of the vaginal walls becoming thinner as a person gets older. The younger a person is when they go through menopause the more common it is that will occur. Women need to discuss such issues with their gynecologist before they just reach for an over the counter product to assist them with lubrication issues.

    Even though women over 60 can end up experiencing some problems, most of them can be overcome. There are very few women who can’t end up with a very satisfying sex life as they get older. You may have to work in order to physically and mentally get to that point though. Let your doctor help you too by being willing to share such issues with them. They are professionals so you shouldn’t be embarrassed turning to them for assistance.

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  • Improving Your Sex Life: How to Be Spontaneous

    Are you looking to improve your sex life?  If you are, you may have already heard that being spontaneous is advised.  Spontaneity often leads it an increase in interest and an increase in satisfaction, in terms of intimacy.  Unfortunately, some men and women find being spontaneous a lot easier said than done.  If you are one of those individuals, please continue reading on for some helpful tips.

    One of the many ways that you can be spontaneous is by not waiting for your partner to initiate sex.  Unfortunately, many women wait for their husbands or boyfriends to get sex started.  Why wait?  You shouldn’t.  In fact, did you know that your partner may be hoping that you start showing more interest in being intimate with them?  What better way to do so than to initiate sex yourself?

    A creative way to be spontaneous, where sex and intimacy is concerned, is by using text messages.  If you and your partner have and use cell phones, send sexy and seductive text messages to them.  In addition to text messages, you can also call your partner or send love notes with them when they walk out the door.

    As previously stated, there are some individuals who find it difficult to be spontaneous.  Parents are often one of those individuals.  Even if you are a parent who has children in the house, there are a still a number of ways that you can be spontaneous, in terms of intimacy with you partner.  Did you just put your children down for bed?  Jump on your partner, literally, as soon as your kids leave the room.  Most parents want to sit down and relax after their kids have gone to bed, but show your partner that you have other things on your mind.

    Having sex somewhere other than the bed or the bedroom is another way to be spontaneous with your partner.  If you are a parent who has kids in the house, just be careful.  Don’t have sex outside of the bedroom when they may be awake at night and don’t be too loud or you may have an uncomfortable situation on yours hands.

    As for where you can have sex outside of the bedroom, use your creativity.  Where do you want to have sex?  What locations would allow you to try new positions that just can’t be done in a bed?  In addition to being intimate in places like on the couch, in a closet, in the bathroom, or on the kitchen table, consider going outside of the home as well, like to a hotel.

    Speaking of getting intimate outside of the home, surprise your partner.  You can do this by booking a night at a hotel in town.  Make sure you choose one that has romantic rooms or an onsite hot tub or swimming pool.  If you are a parent, arrange childcare for your children first, like by calling on a trusted friend or family member.  Don’t tell your partner about your plans until you are ready to leave, as being spontaneous involves surprising them.

    As you can see, there are a number of different ways that you can use spontaneity as a way to improve your relationship, both inside and outside of the bedroom.  What are you waiting for?  Get started today?  Your partner may appreciate your quick thinking.

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  • Individuals 60 and Older are Very Happy with their Sex Lives

    Some individuals feel that getting older isn’t going to be very much fun. They believe that everything on their body is going to start to move in directions that aren’t very appealing. It is this ideal that they have that makes them think that older individuals much must not take part in having sex. They also believe those that do don’t get very much pleasure out of it. Yet they are very wrong in their thinking based on what is really taking place out there.

    Most people over the age of 60 are definitely having sex and they are very happy about it. They take part in the activity at least one a week with a regular partner that they have been with for some period of time. They are past the time in their lives when they have to be everything to everyone. It is now time to really focus on their own needs, and that applies to their sexual desires as well.

    Some individuals who are over the age of 60 grew up in a very different world. Men were mainly dominant and women were submissive. They stayed at home and took care of the house and the children. Today, there is much more equality among men and women in society. That means women can be more assertive in regards to sexual activities they wish to engage in.

    Contrary to popular belief, men really like this. They don’t want to be the one to always initiate sexual activities. They want to know they are needed and that they are desired. They want to be sure their partner is having sex because it feels good to them, not just because they feel obligated to keep their partner happy.

    Some may think that sex for those over 60 would be boring. After all they should enough experience under their belt to have tried it all. Yet many people in this age group will tell you they are still learning. They are finally following what they wanted to try long ago. Also, as they have gotten older their sexual needs and desires have changed from what they once were.

    Communication about sex seems to be more of a standard for people over the age of 60 They feel a connection that goes much deeper now than they did earlier in their lives. While they realize sex isn’t what the relationship is all about, it is definitely a very important part of it. They want to become more intimate with their partner and having a great sexual relationship allows that to take place.

    For those who have been with the same partner for a very long time, many of the tensions that were once there are gone. With the children grown and retirement in place the struggles over child rearing, money, and even time that were once there aren’t anymore. This means that the couple can focus their attention on the needs of each other emotionally and sexually instead of it being consumed by day to day needs.

    The sexual behaviors of those over the age of 60 may not be of interest to younger generations. In fact, they find it hard to swallow that their parents or grandparents are taking part in such activities. Yet it should be reassuring to younger generations that such a big part of their life now can continue on as they reach that age themselves down the road before they know it.

    While most people you likely know who are over the age of 60 don’t go around discussing their sex life in public, you can be sure there is plenty of action still taking place. It is evident from various surveys and questionnaires. The reports from medical offices around the world tell the same story. A great deal of information about those over 60 enjoying sex is also found online where people can share it without disclosing their identity.

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  • Experimenting in the Bedroom: The Dangers of Going Too Far

    If you are looking to improve your sex life, chances are you may be up for a little bit of experimenting.  Experimenting in the bedroom is how many couples improve their relationships and not only in the bedroom.  The only problem is that some individuals do not know that there is a line that shouldn’t be crossed.

    Before you suggest experimenting in the bedroom to your partner or before you start doing, it is important to know that there are consequences for going too far.  Before closely examining those consequences, it is important to determine what too far actually means.  Here is the problem, many individuals are unsure.  You know your partner through.  Will he or she be turned on with the addition of a new sex partner or sex toys or will he or she be turned off?  You should know before you proceed.

    As for what the consequences are to taking experimenting in the bedroom too far, your partner’s feelings may be hurt.  Unfortunately, many spouses and significant others believe that experimentation is needed in the bedroom because they aren’t able to fulfill your desires enough on their own.  If this wasn’t bad enough, their mind may start to wander.  Do you really want to be with them any more?  Are you cheating?  Will you start cheating soon?

    Another consequence to taking experimentation in the bedroom too far is the view that your partner may develop about you.  Do you want to add another sex partner into the mix?  If you do, your significant other may start to think very poorly of you.  She may think that you are sick or sex crazed.  If your main goal is to improve your overall relationship, not just the intimacy in the bedroom, this is an important factor that you will want to take into consideration before suggestion something extreme.

    If you take experimenting in the bedroom too far, your partner may no longer wish to have sex with you.  In fact, he or she may start to avoid having any form of intimacy with you.  This occurs for a number of different reasons.  Typically, if your partner is turned off by what you are suggesting, they are likely to put off having sex with you, even just for a short period of time.

    If avoiding sex wasn’t enough, you may find your relationship coming to an end.  Unfortunately, many individuals, possibly just like you, do know how big of a deal experimentation in the bedroom can be.  Remember that there is a difference between trying a new sex position and having your spouse pretend to be an old girlfriend of yours or even bringing an old girlfriend into the bedroom.  If you are not careful with how you proceed, spicing up your intimacy may be the least of your problems.  You may find yourself alone and in an empty bed, having to start the whole process over again.

    As you can see, there are a number of consequences to expecting too much of your partner in the bedroom.  Experimenting in the bedroom can help to spice up your sex life, but just be sure to use your best judgment.  Do not offer up suggestions that you already know your partner will refuse, as there may be serious consequences for doing so.

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