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  • Or Nah – SoMo (renedition)

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  • 7 Proven Benefits Of Pure Jojoba Oil

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    Jojoba oil is one of the most used natural ingredients in lotions and moisturizers. This amazing oil consists of a unique combination of vitamins and minerals making the oil suitable for ALL types of skin. It has a lot of cosmetic uses.

    1. Great makeup remover

    Jojoba oil has good cleansing properties and can be used as a makeup remover and facial cleanser. Simply soak a cotton ball in jojoba oil and rub it all over your face and lips. Remove rest of the oil from your face with a moist cotton ball afterwards.

    2. Hydrating body oil

    Apply the oil all over the body before bathing. It will hydrate your body, so you do not need to use a body lotion after your bath. Also, it can be used for body massage. It has a non-greasy texture and pleasant smell.

    3. Cracked heels remedy

    Regular use of the oil on the feet will keep them smooth and prevent cracked heels. Just apply the oil, put on the socks and leave them on for an hour. Your feet will become smooth and soft.

    4. Anti-stretch marks agent

    Jojoba oil also works as a prevention of stretch marks. Just rub a small amount of the oil twice a day. Also, it can be used to reduce existing stretch marks.

    5. Superb dry scalp moisturizer

    Jojoba oil is a great moisturizer for dry scalp and it will help you to get rid of the flaky and brittle skin. It’ll moisturize your scalp deep down to the pores and balance its pH level too. Also, it will keep the scalp healthy with its antibacterial abilities.

    6. Oily scalp remedy

    Jojoba oil helps to control the sebum excretion in the scalp. It regulates the flow of sebum in the clogged pores and balances the amount of oil in your hair.

    7. Easy hair colour preserver

    If you have coloured hair, apply this oil on your hair before going for a swim. The oil will prevent harmful chemicals from stripping your hair colour.

    However, there are a couple of things you need to be aware of while using Jojoba oil for the first time:

    1. Make sure that you are using 100% pure jojoba oil of the best quality – organic and cold-pressed.
    2. If the oil is contaminated with other oils or substances, it can make the skin problems even worse.
    3. The skin should absorb the oil completely. If this does not happen then stop using the oil.
    4. Use it sparingly.

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    Source by Milan Podhrazsky

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  • Driver Vs Passenger

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    Either you have a driver’s license for 2 months or 20 years, the day you start driving your own car you start developing small little corks and tics. As in any other activity you sustain you’ll build up a ritual as to driving your car.

    Starting from the way you enter your car, the order in which you start the engine, set up the mirrors, lover the windows, strap your seat-belt on or not, turn on the head-lights going all the way to the speed consider to be legal in town and outside town, without knowing it you’ll develop, let’s call it, your own driving style.

    However there comes a point in any car owner’s driving career that he will be accompanied by someone else in the car. Having someone else in the car with you can turn out to be a load of trouble, either that other person is a driver or not. Going out for a ride may turn out not to be as recreational as it’s thought to be.

    It is virtually impossible to please everyone who will accompany you for a ride, to keep up with all the driving rules and regulations, and it is pointless to seek or demand perfection as it does not exist. Usually it’s either it’s your wife or your mother who no matter what you do will state out loud that you are driving too fast, either it’s your best friend or your father who feel free to teach you a bit more about driving from their own experience or the “best-case scenario” a work colleague or an acquaintance to question the way you shift gears, the route you took on the way to work, the choice for the oil you use. You needed have to explain why it is that you like to set up your mirrors before you put your seat belt on or why you turn on the headlights before starting the engine, or why your radio is playing Placido Domingo.

    In any of these cases feel free to break it down from the start: you are the driver and at the point when they’re not behind the wheel they are just passengers. And, if possible, try to remember that rule for yourself when riding in another driver’s car.

    When all else fails feel free to place a sticker in front of them: “No talking to the driver!”.

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    Source by Mihai Dumbrava

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  • Understanding Cichlid Mating

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    Introduction

    Cichlids are either monogamous or polygamous fish with mating habits that have been shown to strongly influence many aspects of breeding behavior, including courtship and brooding.

    However, cichlid mating habits and the effects they have on other aspects of breeding behavior can vary from species to species…

    For example, although most monogamous cichlid species are not mouthbrooders, Chromidotilapia, Gymnogeophagus, Spathodus and Tanganicodus are all monogamous mouthbrooders.

    On the other hand, several open or cave spawning cichlids are polygamous; examples of these are Apistogramma, Lamprologus, Nannacara and Pelvicachromis.

    Like most animals, mating can occur only between the same species. For this reason, when setting up a cichlid aquarium, it is important to keep the number of species as small as possible.

    Moreover, since older individuals tend to be more dominant and aggressive than younger individuals, all individuals in the tank should be of approximately the same age.

    First signs that the mating season is approaching

    As soon as the mating season comes, males that are ready to mate become paler in color (becoming highly attractive for receptive females).

    Moreover, you will notice an overall increase in aggressive behavior in your cichlid society. Male individuals will commnunicate their emotional state to other males, flaring their gills and fully spreading their fins (in order to look bigger and scare competitors for the same females).

    Most times, this is enough to establish dominance. However, when two individuals with comparable social rank meet, fights can occur. Some of the most common aggressive behaviors during cichlid mating season include:

    • Tail beating (pushing water against the competitor)
    • Biting
    • Increased swimming speed in the tank

    How do Cichlids mate?

    Cichlid mating is usually a highly aggressive behavior. During the so-called “cichlid mating dance”, scales are lost, decorations are toppled and death can occur.

    Cichlids are egg layers. This means that, unlike mammals, in cichlid fish, mating (or spawning) takes place outside of the body, with no copulation between the male and the female.

    The female lays the eggs and then the male releases his sperm over the eggs. From then on, both the female and the male will take care of the fertilized eggs, until the baby fish (fry) is approximately 1 inch long and can fend for itself.

    Selecting a Mate

    Cichlids are quite picky… they spend a lot of time choosing their sexual mates. Once a male finds a female of his liking, it starts engaging in courtship. Courtship in cichlids involves chasing, slapping the sides of their bodies together and mouth locking. Importantly, all these behaviors must be performed correctly to trigger egg laying in the female.

    Examples of mating behavior in cichlids

    In most cichlids, mouthbrooding starts as soon as the male attracts a sexually ripe female to his ‘nest’ (a little hole he has just dug for the occasion). Then the female lays the eggs which are then fertilized by the male. The female then picks the fertilized eggs and holds them in her mouth.

    In other other mouthbrooders, like Cyprichromis leptosoma, a similar mating behavior has been described.

    However, in this cichlid species, mating occurs in in open water. The female picks the eggs first and then the male fertilizes them.

    In other cichlid species, females lay their eggs on top of flat rocks (open brooding). Only then they will be receptive to male courtship rituals. Examples include Pterophyllum, Symphysodon spp, and Anomalochromis thomasi.

    In these cichlid species, male and female parents usually have separate brooding tasks. Typically, the male keeps intruders as far as possible from the eggs and females carefully fan water over the eggs, removing the infertile ones and and swimming by their fry after they have hatched.

    In other species, cichlids lay their eggs in caves, crevices, holes or shells. These cichlids are called “cave spawing”. Examples cave spawining cichlids are Pelvicachromis spp., Archocentrus spp, and Apistogramma spp.

    Finally, in other species, females lay eggs in the open water or in a cave and take the hatched larvae into the mouth. Examples are some variants of Geophagus altifrons, and some Aequidens, Gymnogeophagus, and Satanoperca.

    It takes about 21 days for the eggs to hatch. You can expect up to approximately 35 fry/couple.

    During mating and, more importantly, during breeding, your tank conditions should be kept at their best. Make sure that the new parents have enough food and privacy!

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    Source by Kevin Jacobs

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  • If You Want to Meet Japanese Women, Don’t Be a “Mama’s Boy”

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    Do some men really want a woman who reminds them of their mother?

    You know the type: “Mama’s boys” – the spoiled, pampered men who cannot seem to break away from their mothers. Don’t get me wrong, mothers are great – mine sure is – but there comes a point in your life when you have to grow up.

    Yet some Japanese men seem destined to be “Mama’s boys” for life. And why would they ever want to change? After all, for these men, their mothers have cooked their food, done their laundry, cleaned their rooms, and basically done everything for them their whole life. Who would want to give that up? So instead of growing up and learning to take care of themselves without Mom, they simply look for a woman who will do the same kinds of things for them.

    A friend of mine who was in a relationship with one of these mama’s boys saw the relationship end because her man’s mom did not think she (my friend) would make a proper wife, and since his mom did not approve, that was the end of the relationship. How crazy is that?

    Think of all the good women out there who are passed over because the man’s mom does not approve of her for some reason. Sometimes the man will never get married because his mom does not want to let them go, or because she thinks that no woman will ever be good enough for her precious son. So the man spends his life alone and in misery while his mom stays happy (and in control of his life). Men should always honor their mothers, but you shouldn’t sacrifice your entire life just to make your mother happy.

    After all, what kind of mother would want her son to give up his entire life and turn his back on romance, just because a woman does not meet up with her requirements? This is a selfish way for a mother to behave – if mothers really love their sons, they will raise them to be strong, independent, and able to build a life with a good woman. Instead of trying to rule and control her son’s romantic life, a mother should teach her son how to treat a woman properly so that he can go on to lead a productive and happy life.

    Yet some mothers have programmed their sons to the point that these poor men spend their entire life looking for a woman just like dear old Mom.

    Here is a news flash, mama’s boys: there is no other woman on Earth who is going to be just like your mother. If you want to have a real relationship with a woman – especially an independent, emotionally healthy woman – you need to let go of your maternal ties and find a way to stand on your own.

    Don’t you think it is kind of weird to want a woman like your mother anyway? I mean, imagine having sex with your mother! Not a pleasant thought. So why do you keep looking for a woman like your mother? Do you not want a woman who is her own person? After all, any good woman is going to run as far away from you as she can get if you keep comparing her to your mother.

    Being a mama’s boy might seem cute to a woman at first, but before long, any good woman is going to want a real man. Of course you want your mother and your wife to get along, but when you get married you need to always take the side of your wife, even to the point of defending her against your mother, if necessary. If you are not ready to let go of your mother and be a real man, then you probably are not ready for dating a real woman either.

    Some men who marry Japanese women – whether they’re “Mama’s boys” or not – might find that their mothers have concerns about whether the Japanese woman is going to “fit in” culturally with the rest of the family. For example, Japanese women might marry Indian men, Muslim men, African-American men, Jewish men – and sometimes parents from all of these cultures have their particular concerns about intermarriage. I’ve had some male Jewish friends who have married Japanese women, and it’s always interesting to me how often they’ve been able to persuade their Japanese brides to convert to Judaism – even though Japanese women are somewhat non-religious. (I think the men’s mothers might have something to do with influencing these Japanese women’s decisions.)

    Bottom line: no matter what culture you’re from or how intense of a “Mama’s boy” you are, when it comes time for you to find a woman (or many women!) to spend your life with, you need to do what is right for you. Ultimately, your mother will be happy for you.

    Have you known any “Mama’s boys” among your circle of male friends?

    Why do you think Japanese culture develops so many “Mama’s boys?”

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    Source by Xander S.

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  • Crossing the Mangrove by Maryse Conde

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    “Crossing the Mangrove,” by Maryse Conde is set in 1986 on the Caribbean island of Guadeloupe. The story is told through the eyes of the many inhabitants of the island who are uncomfortable with the arrival of a strange foreigner who has come to live amongst them. Francisco Alvarez-Sanchez mysterious story invokes themes of past and present Caribbean life and stories from the villagers are combined to connect the fascinating tale. The novel reflects the Creolite diversity of the inhabitants of Guadeloupe.

    In “Crossing the Mangrove,” several recurring themes prominent in Caribbean life are evident. Colonization and class perspective are amongst the more dominant themes. Guadeloupe was colonized by France in the 17th century and, like many Caribbean islands, Guadeloupe became a slave trading center. A story told by the strange recluse Xantippe shows how colonization ideals of the past are still present on the island today. As a young man Xantippe was happy go lucky. This gave the French ruled gendarmes (police) reason to interrogate him. They insinuated that he had enemies and burned his cabin down. Xantippe describes how he lost everything and his life was changed for the worse, forever. This activity is reminiscent of Cesaire’s equation: colonization = “thingification.”

    Class perspective exists on the island of Guadeloupe but to a lesser extent than in the previous novels. The Ramsaraz and Lameanes families are upscale. They own land for farming and flower nurseries. They have large houses and they drive French built Peugeots. Although a peasant and servant population exists it is not featured prominently in the novel. Instead, something of a middle class society comprises the majority class of the characters. Moise the mailman, Emile Etienne the historian, and Lucien Evarist the writer are amongst a cast of Francis middle class friends. But it is assumed that Francis belongs to the upper class due to his tales of travel and adventure, his ability to purchase the aging Alexis estate, and daily truck deliveries of household appliances such as a TV set, a refrigerator, a stereo set. The inhabitants of Riviere au Sel are envious of this and question his occupation and work ethic as a writer. They ask, “Was a writer a do-nothing, sitting in the shade for hours on his veranda, staring at the ridge of mountains for hours on end while the rest sweated it out under the Good Lords hot sun.” One must get the sense that the class perspective presented in “Crossing the Mangrove,” is a good representation of society in Guadeloupe today.

    Strong themes that are current to Guadeloupe society are that in a male dominated society women are forced into the practice of arranged marriages. But many of the women of Riviere au Sel have contempt toward their estranged husband’s and their fathers who make the unusual arrangements. Forced marriages are common and based in tradition in this island society but oddly enough explanations are not provided as to why a parent would want to marry off their young and attractive daughters to older men with dubious intentions. What is the motivation of the parents who take part in this practice? Yes, these men are wealthy and the young women will live in comfort, but are the parents receiving some compensation for their generous contribution to the men? The young women all seem to come from families that are well established. Do the parents take into consideration the trauma and unhappiness their daughters will suffer?

    In Riviere au Sel, Dinah’s father arranged for her to marry Loulou. Dinah was in favor of this but later became repulsed by her husband. Dinah said, “It’s been years since Loulou slept in my bed. Once darkness has fallen I lock my door and curl up like a fetus between my sheets.” Rosa, of Indian decent, is forced to marry Sylvester; the practice of arranged marriages is also common in India where a social caste system still exists. In her passage in the novel she wants it to be known that, “When they married me off to Sylvester Ramsaran, nobody asked for my opinion” and “Sylvester hurt me. He tore me.”

    Just as her Indian mother before her, Vilma’s marriage was to be arranged. Vilma’s father Sylvester, arranged for her to marry a man named Marins Vindrex. But Vilma revolted by running away from home saying, “Marins Vindrex. But I don’t love him.” In the ultimate act of vengeance against her father she took up with the hated Francis Sanchez. Now in a position to forever poison the appalling marriage to the dreadful Vindrex, she allowed herself to become impregnated by Francis. Sylvester is defenseless to act while the questionable motives of Francis intensify amongst the villagers of Riviere au Sel who are already suspicious of him.

    Conde connects the vinettes together in “Crossing the Mangrove,” by establishing the relationship each villager had with Francis Sanchez as the story progresses. Every member has a strong opinion or emotion about Francis. Some of those thoughts are positive and some are negative. Central to the story is the wake of Francis which is held in Riviere au Sel. It rains a lot in Riviere au Sel and on the Thursday afternoon of Francis wake, it was no different. The rain seemed to act on behave of Mother Nature in cleansing the congregation of friends, enemies, and former lovers who gathered to witness Francis swan song.

    Moise, the mailman is the first character that Conde provides us with insight into the relationship he had with Francis. Oddly enough there was some speculation in the community that there may be a homosexual relationship involving Moise and the great womanizer Francis Sanchez. “There were wicked sneers. There was something fishy about that friendship and the two men were Makoumeh! (Homosexuals). Adding even more to the oddity is the fact that many considered Moise a “Misgotten freak,” and ‘ugly.’ These allegations aside, the two were friends but the friendship was awkward and unusual. One moment we see Moise cradling Francis in his arms when something upset Francis. The next moment we see Francis accusing Moise of stealing money from his mysterious trunk.

    But Francis also had his enemies. Both Loulou Lameaulnes and Sylvester Ramsaran have similar reasons for despising Francis. Francis had sexual affairs with their daughters impregnating both of them. To these two men Francis was a villain for his indiscretions but in both cases it was the young women who approached Francis. Both women hated their fathers and hated the lives they led under their father’s roofs. Perhaps the fathers should have blamed themselves for forcing their daughters out of their arms and into the bed of Francis. Vilma and Mira both shared the same bed with Francis and both attended his wake. They did not speak to each other. Oddly, Loulou and Sylvester were also in attendance and both felt a strong sense that in Francis death justice had been served.

    The congregation exited the wake with the sober realization that they had just mourned for a man that they hardly knew. Francis had that ability. People were drawn to him but they didn’t know why. The novel ends with the inhabitants of Riviere au Sel raising the same ironic questions about Francis as when they had first laid eyes on him. “Who was Francis Sanchez? And subsequently, “Who was this man that chooses to die amongst us?

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    Source by Frank Cardello

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